Feminists? I've run into so many different types of feminists I don't even know what being a feminist means anymore. Usually when I meet these so-called-feminists they insult me for me wanting to cook the dinner and clean the house alone and not force my partner to help me or do it by himself.
I'll never understood that? My dream has been to find someone to cook and clean for! Or I could put it this way; someone to love truly. In my world it's the same thing. I'd love to spoil my partner from time to time. What isn't lovelier than waking up at 5.30 a.m. and make him breakfeast before he sets out for his morning shift? It's not that I do it because I SHOULD, it's because I LOVE him, stupid people! (Nothing personal)
I'm not saying this is the only way to love somebody. Of course it's individual. If I love cooking, cooking might come out naturally and I'd show my love in some other way. Showing your love isn't doing only the things you use to, but also the things that sometimes seem hard to do.
Yes, it's hard to cook and clean everyday after having been studying the whole day, but it doesn't matter. My partner seldom lets me believe he doesn't appreciate what I'm doing. He reminds me often how he appreciates what I do and he shows his love for me everyday.
From a "housewife", with love.
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